MISSINFORMATIVE...☮☮...Alwayys Being Informative ♔

I'm Back

2010-08-19T13:20:00.003-04:00

It has definitely been a minute since I have posted on this blog. I must say that I have definitely found stability and a decent guy that I can grow with. Even though he and I are not committed to each other, since we are at two different universities, I know that he has all the qualities that I desire. I have calmed down a lot. I've discovered that it's nothing like being with a person that you know has the same feelings that you possess. I know it looks like I have gone all soft and mushy....and I have. My wild days are long behind me and I'm more focused on myself and getting out of school within the next three years!

Sex and Relationships are still my favorite topics to discuss but I have discovered new aspects of the topics and broadened my views on a lot of things. A lot of people are telling me that I have changed and I'm not the same person that I was was. Truth is, I'm not! I'm a much better person that has learned a lot of things through experience. Therefore, everything I discuss and promote I have been through. Each guy that I have had some type of relationship with has taught me something that I could benefit from. Every relationship that we experience are meant to teach us and prepare us for the next person. If I wouldn't have experiences the heartaches, the bullshit, the assholes, the guys only after sex, and the cheaters....I would not be in this position that I am in. All those things made it easier for me to start something new and make it a definite success.

I am definitely going to start posting more often and discussing more things dealing with sex and relationships, opposed to just SEX!

Peace,

Outspoken Goddess :-)

☮☮Filling In the Blanks☮☮

2009-12-05T22:55:00.005-05:00

★★....So the last couple of months have definitely been a roller coaster ride for me...to say the least ★ ★

...Where in the hell do I even begin??????????? ☠

So I have definitely realized that I don't know what I want in a man! See...lately I have been caught up on guys having status and looking halfway decent. I have totally loss sight in what I used to have in mind and envisioned in a man. I used to want a man that was confident, strong , masculine, protective(not too protective) ,someone that understood and embraces their blackness. Lately, I have ended up with fine, dumb, over protective and insecure men looking for one night stands.

I have placed myself in situations that I would have never placed myself in!!! I have placed my pride aside on many occasions in order to please the other party ☄....Erased my morals to make others happy...loss my values and myself!!

When I look in the mirror I barely recognize myself&& truth be told I don't care to. I am scared that I will have to face all the shameless shit that I have done. Now don't get it twisted I am far from a hoe...But I have placed myself in situations to give people that impression..☹... I have definitely realized that I fucked up with a certain person...Instead of being content with a person I knew I could grow to love and they would do the same...I went searching for someone else...Someone with more status...

People can be so cruel and insensitive when you are trying to change. I realize that I am an addict...Not necessarily a sex addict but someone addicted to the drive of getting someone and the emotional and sexual build up ☀I have talked to my girls and I need help...&& the only way I can help myself and change is if I confront my problems head on with no fear..☂...now that does not mean I am going to stop writing on this blog because this a sex and relationship blog...but that does not mean that I have to exploit myself or take place in things that compromise me....They say college is the place you find and discover yourself...but it has become the place where I have loss myself!...

I know there are plenty of freshman girls in college that can relate to the experience and how it feels finding or in my case losing yourself!!!!...I will definitely keep the post coming and I am going to do my best to start back posting everyday...

Be Blessed :-)

*** Outspoken Goddess***

What Makes You A Whore?????

2009-08-16T18:49:00.004-04:00

What makes you a whore?...Is it simply the number amount of people you have had sex with????....or is it a woman that gets paid for performing sex???...or is it based on how quickly you give it up???...or is it used to describe a woman that enjoys sex and doesn't have a problem admitting it???

Lately I have been wondering what makes a girl a whore...but are those the things that make you a whore??? Why is a woman's worth decided by her PUSSY?????

Peace and Blessings,

Outspoken Goddess

Random Saturdayy Post

2009-08-15T20:08:00.003-04:00

Have you ever seen someone that sent chillz down ur spine....Instantly made u wet...&& wanted to fuck at first sight????? But u didnt want to cross the line cuz u wanted more????....2 b continued

Last Night

2009-08-05T21:20:00.000-04:00

Heyyy Guysss....I am posting a poem of mine....excuse the format I am once again posting via LG Voyager :-(....Feel free to comment...enjoyy...the poem is titled"Last Night"....................................................................................................Last Night you held me tighter than I have ever been held before...Loved me stronger than anyone has before...You did things to me I never could imagine....The kisses we shared so gentle and moist....You brought the ocean to the shore....Preparing me for the long ride ahead...I close my eyes ready for you to give it all to me...You open the door ever so slightly...Teasing Me...I tell you come all the wayy in and you do ending my hunger....You pace yourself careful to hit my spot with wach steady movement....You pick up the pace...and my breathing gets heavier....You stop to whisper "i love you"....To weak and dazed to speak my eyes tell you " I love you too"....We continue our journey together....I match every stroke with the same passion...We blank out and experience the greates thing ever felt...Once I gain my strength I climb into your arms....&& rest....You kiss my forehead...&& I fall asleep....knowing that we will never be...but we keep lying to each other telling ourselves this is the LAST NIGHT!

....

2009-07-24T12:12:00.000-04:00

hey readers....today's freaky fridayy post will be posted 2morrow...I'm havn problems opening up my email account so look out 4 it 2morrow...:-)

Throwback Tale Thursdayy <3

2009-07-23T14:17:00.004-04:00

Heyy Readers...It's Throwback Tale Thursdayy!!! Okay so today's story came from a young lady who name Gina.

Hello Missinformative Fam...I actually loss my virginity 4 weeks ago to a guy I have known since I was in the 6 th grade...He and I were never what you called close friends but we definitely knew each other. So anyways he and I got back into contact with each other and started talking and eventually hung out! We hung out nothing serious or anything to make me think he was into me...So anyways after we are done hanging out and we return to my house...He grabs my ass at the moment I was thinking I definitely want him to be the person to take my virginity :-)...So the next day comes and he invites me over and we go back to his place...The atmosphere was right and he was such a gentleman...So he takes his shirt off and lays on his bed by this time I am instantly wet...(maybe that turned me on from lack of experience) but anyways he begins stroking my p****y as I am laying back on him...So he undresses me ever so slowly lol...He goes across the room and sits down on his chair and motions for me to sit on his dick...He obviously didn't know I was a virgin..So i walked over and tried to sit on his dick but it just wasn't working because as you know I was extremely tight. So he laid me back on his bed and went to work I winced through the pain which I must say is probably the worse pain I have ever felt in my life...He climbs off and realizes I am bleeding....I clean up and he goes back at...It began to feel extremely good as he hit it from theback after the pain subsided from the first deep strokes...So he nuts and I clean up and I head home...I know my first time surely was not special but I was pleased a little I guess...The guy eventual found out he took my virginity and was quiet shocked because he claimed he couldn't tell...(total insult) lol...but thats the way it wen down lol

* Pretty Good Read

Peace

Outspoken Goddess

♥♔ ☮Monday Thoughts ☮♔♥

2009-07-20T12:26:00.002-04:00

Heyy Readers….Let me start off by saying I had a crazy ass weekend but never the less it was extremely fun! But Anywayyys enough about that lol…Well, yesterdayy I hung out with a friend from middle school and a friend of his and as most of my readers and friends know I can’t go anywhere with out doing a little research…&& I also spoke with a couple of guys in my neighborhood about sex lol…( I ask so many questions people in my neighborhood are beginning to think I am a some sort of spy) lol…Okayy well anyways we discussed a lot of sexual topics from their preferences and dislike…and what turns them off and what turns them on J

I asked two guys in my neighborhood what they preferred and what they disliked….

Question 1:…First thing that attracts you to a woman
B: Pretty Ass Eyes
B.J: Light Skin( I will get into that later)

Question 2:…Booty or Beauty?
B: Ass
B.J: Both…( I told hys ass to onli pic one)

Querstion 3:…What is a dime?

B: A light skin redbone
B:J Thick ass redbone!!!!

Question 4:…Why lightskin???
B: Because light skin chicks just look better
B.J: They always have prettier faces

Okayyy so after they answered the questions the way they did I ended the Q& A session because I began to take offense to it especially since I am a brown skin chick…So my next question to them was if they found me attractive and they said yes but I am one of few decent brown women…I try not to deal with skin color on this site but this reali urked me!!!! So my next project will consist of me investigating why black men are infatuated with lighter complexioned women ( no offense to my lighter skin women…Black is beautiful…Period!!!

Okayy on to the other guys…So me and the guys I mentioned in the beginning of the post were talking about girls and I brought up…

Wetness Malfunction: When a girl can’t get wet…Which I believe is from having to many sexual partners (which dried her out)…Wetness Malfunction is similar to when a guy has an orgasm but does not come because he is worn out….I will admit some girls have always struggled from getting wet but if your girl all of a sudden can’t get it juicy for you…You should reali have some ??????’s

To Be Continued…My finger hurts…
Outspoken Goddess

★Freaky Fridayy★

2009-07-17T14:01:00.003-04:00

Heyyyy Everyone it's Freaky Fridayyy...So i received a couple responses to the post and I have decided to post one today♔This comes from K.B..(yes it is a chik) lol

What is the freakiest you have ever done? The freakiest thing I have ever done..Was wen I was 16 I let a guy cum all over my upper body and he proceeded to lick it off while I jacked him off lol
The weirdest place you have ever had sex? The weirdest place I ever had sex was in a Macy's dressing room with my bestfriend&&yes it is a girl :-)
Most amount of people you have been engaged with sexually @ one time??? 7 we had an orgy at a friend's place...Guys were with Guys &Chik with Chiks
Would You take it in the ass (female&&male)???Hell Yeah..I have many times...but the shit does make your ass loose
Go down on the same sex??? Yes I have ate plenty of pussy and let's just sayy its kind of an addiction :-0

* WOW!!!

☮♔★Throwback Tell Thurdayy★♔☮

2009-07-16T13:07:00.004-04:00

Heyyyy Readers....It's Throwback Tale Thursdayy...Okayy So this post comes from a 22 yr old women...who remains nameless...I ಌ this story!!!!

What's up Miss Informative?????? Okay so I lost my virginity at 20 yrs old (kinda late rite?) My first was a guy name Jeremy. We both attended college in NC together. Jeremy was 6'3 Caramel complexion with thick locs of black curls and big pretty eyes that just melted my heart. Jeremy and I dated a year before we decided to take it to the next level...One night he came over to my dorm and we ordered pizza and watched my favorite movie Clueless lol...So we continued to chat it up as usual...but then he flipped the channel to Cinemax and of course there was some porn on...He asked me did I like what I saw( a white man eating a lady out) I said yeah...So he told me to lay back I nervously did so...He pulled down my shorts and undies and started to EAT ME OUT lol :-) ( i'm such a goof)...He did that for about 10 mins...I didn't come but it did feel good...He asked me if I wanted to suck him up....I did...I know I didn't do it right cuz he def didn't cum :-(...He told me to lie further up on the bed...I did...He asked me if I was ready...I said yeah even thought I was scared as fuk!!!...He entered me and I gasped...That Ish hurt like fucking hell!!!!! I cried LIKE SERIOUSLY!!!!...After about 5 mins it started to feel good but as soon as it started to feel good he came...He and I talked for another year and eventually parted wayys..he's still a friend lol ;-)

* Aww...stories like this make me wish I would have waited

ಌಌFreaky Fridayyಌಌ

2009-07-10T14:12:00.003-04:00

Heyy Readers....Fridayys will now be freaky Fridays!!! Email me stories and answers to these question to outspokengoddess@gmail.com

What is the freakiest you have ever done?

The weirdest place you have ever had sex?

Most amount of people you have been engaged with sexually @ one time???

Would You take it in the ass (female&&male)???

Go down on the same sex???

Peace

Outspoken Goddess

☆☆Throwback Tale Thursdayy☆☆

2009-07-09T13:48:00.007-04:00

☆☆Heyy Readers!!!! As you know it's Throwback Tale Thurdayyy!!!! From this point all Throwback Thursdayy Stories will be first time stories! Wirte to outspokengoddess@gmail.com Today's story comes in from Amanda.

Hello Outspoken Goddess and Missinformative followers. My first time took place when I was 16 years old. I am 18 now. I have never shared this story with anyone most of my friends and family members still believe that I am a virgin. My first time took place January 29, 2007. It was a typical afternoon. I got home from school, did my homework and cooked my sister and brother some dinner. My mother got in around 7 as she usually did. I received a text from my friend A.J telling me to meet him at Starbucks on Cascade. I asked my mom to drop me off she did after fifteen minutes of me begging and pleaded...She wasn't to sure about me going out on school nights. When I got there A.J had already ordered me a latte. He and I had talked about school and all the other crap that happened throughout that day. He asked me if I wanted to go back to his house to play Madden. He knew I was game. So I got into his car and he started playing Usher's Can U Handle It...That was totally odd!&& he was singing it to me. I asked him what he had up his sleeve and he laughed it off and called me ugly and said that I had no shot&& that I was his best friend. lol.

Anyways we got to his crib and went down to the basement as we usually did and played the game. When out of nowhere he lent in and kissed me! Naturally i kissed him back. When I finally pulled away he had a look in his eyes that clearly read he wanted more. So I kissed him again. he knew I was a virgin and I knew that he was very experienced and most girls wanted him. So anyways he ask me if he could take off my top. Nervously I said yes. He pulled my sweater and t-shirt off. and there I stood with just my bra. He unhooked it like a pro. He licked my nipples and sucked them and that sent me into ecstasy. That was the most action I had ever experienced! he gently pulled down my jeans and next my panties fell to the ground. He slowly inserted his finger into my spot. I jumped from the pain! That shit hurt like hell but for some reason I wanted him to finish. He laid he back on the couch and opened my legs and began to lick my pussy... I was in heaven. He stopped for a second and began to undress. He pulled down his boxers. I still remember the color blue and grey lol. When I saw his dick I literally gasped! It was huge! I sat there for a moment wondering how that was going to fit into me. He asked me if I was ready and I told him yes! He entered me slowly. I held my breath and closed my eyes to fight back the tears of pain mixed with pleasure! He stroked long gentle strokes and gazed into my eyes. I could barely breath. He lifted my legs up a little higher and put them on his shoulders. It hurt a lot but I wanted him deeper inside me so I fought the pain than soon turned into pleasure. Not many people can say they experience an orgasm their first time but I did. A.J fucked me proper! I feel in love with my best friend after that experience!

Him and I are still best friends. We tried going out but that just didn't work lol..But we recently graduated and are headed to different schools. So hopefully our friendship will last.

Wow! Lol...I wish I first times went as smoothly as this! Mine sure as hell didn't lol

Outspoken Goddess

☆☆Poerty&& Erotic Storyy Wednesdayy★★

2009-07-08T13:56:00.006-04:00

♔Heyy Readers ♔!!!...So I have decided to incorporate Erotic Story/Poetry Wednesdays...All of today's poems were written by me(any part of these poems..must be credited to missinformative.blogspot.com)...&& I strongly encourage you to submit your erotic stories to outspokengoddess@gmail.com☺☺

The Best Is Yet to Cum

I lent my head back as he kissed my neck and my caressed my back

Rolled my eyes in the back of my head

and instantly my legs spread

Your tongue in my mouth

as I envision it going south

We gazed into each other's

and instantly I was in paradise!

You looked at me with such passion

and the heat rushed between my legs!

He entered me with such force

I screamed out in ecstasy!

He flippedme over and let loose

My mind blacked

&& he whispered to me...

be cool babyy the best is yet to come

ಌWhy is it so hard to be faithful?ಌ

2009-07-06T14:13:00.005-04:00

☆Hey Readers...Once again sorry about the slow postings...☆

&& please continue to write to missinformative.blogspot.com

So my boyfriend and I have decided to take our relationship to a deeper commitment...meaning that we are going to try and make this long term...Long term as in trying to make this last forever...Anyone that knows me..knows that I have an extremely hard time being with one guy..It's not that I am a cheater...I just can't seen to find a complete package...At the moment I feel that the guy I'm with is the complete package...We are compatible on so many levels...He is a total freak(LIKE ME) lol...He makes me laugh when I'm having a shitty ass day...I can totally see myself falling in love with this guy...but I'm not sure if I can be faithful...I would never intentionally hurt anyone...especially not anyone I am extremely feeling! I have been in love before and stone in love...&& U have made the mistake of cheating..I have been cheated on as well...So I definitely know the pain that one feels...when the person they are feeling or in love with hurts them...

Girls cheat for a lot of different reasons....but if a chick is stone in love its rare that she would cheat on him..but guys can be in love with someone and cheat on them because most guys cheat for sexual purposes and us females tend to stray when we don't feel pretty anymore or we feel under appreciated...But I totally think like a guy..I cheat because the dick is not good or on point...I begining to think that I have a sexual addiction! I might just have a thurst for dick!...But gosh I seriously have to get together and be a proper girlfriend that can tend to her boyfriends needs :-)

Peace,

Outspoken Goddess

Have You Ever Had It Put On You So Good!!! That you couldn't....

2009-07-01T12:03:00.002-04:00

Hey Readers!!! I just had to post this after having a great conversation with my sister lol :-)

Okayy so have you ever had it put on ya soooo gooood that you couldn't.....

eat?

sleep?

walk straight?

wake up the next day?

do your hair or put on your make up?

have sex with anyone but this guy or girl?

love anyone because you were to connected to that dick or pussy?

The point of me posting this was...That recently I had sex with the sexiest guy that I have talked to...We have had sex twice and he has never came!!!...I'm not saying that my shit is the best but most of the time I make guys come within the first ten minutes. He claims that i run from the dick which prohibits him from cumming...sure enough when a guy is hitting it from the back I do have a habit if running lol..Not because I can't take a dick but because it tends to get uncomfortable lol :-)...But I went back and evaluated the situation...Every guy that I have fucked after the Tat Shop Guy(previous Throwback Tale Thursday Post) I haven't been able to fuck him properly! I think I'm in love with the Tat Guy's dick!...No one else can compare to him..he makes love to me...he makes sure that I am pleased!...When we get together its like WOWOWOWWOWWOWWOW!!! My mind totally explodes!...My legs shake!&& My heart is literally is beating out of my chest!...I don't think I will be able to recreate that experience with anyone else...I'm pretty certain that there are guys out there that can fuck me better than him...But gosh he just makes time stop...I know a lot of girls have emotional and sexual attachments with their first...but my first is definitely a distant memory...like he is so far out of the picture...lol...but I need to find away to let go of his dick...cause I do have a relationship now and I want to become intimate with him eventually but I don't know if I will be ready to erase the other guy from my mind :-( HELP!!!!

Peace,

Outspoken Goddess

2009-07-01T11:56:00.002-04:00

Hey Readers…What’s up???... Sorry about my postings being so slow…I want my post to be well put together…I just don’t want to put any bullshyt up lol J…So over the weekend and yesterday…I thought about what my next post should be about!&& I came up with backstabbing friends!!!
My EX-best friend and I have known each other since Kindergarten…She and I have been through hell and back together…being each other’s support systems along the way…She and I fell out recently over some he say, she say bullshyt!...Anyways to give you some background on the story…She began dating a guy that neither her mother or grandmother approved of…She has been physically abused and verbally abused by him…I gave up on the whole situation up…until she came to visit me last Thursday…She and I had what I thought was a decent conversation…Anyways somehow it got back to the guys mother that I had said some bull about her only coming around because her nigga was on jail…1.) I could give a rat’s ass about their ghetto ass drama!!!!&&hood ass stories! 2.) I try not to keep drama in my daily routine (I burn a black candle every morning to keep the negativity away). But what really made my blood boil was the fact that she had lied on several of my family members…&& had the nerve to tell me that she didn’t like them…I don’t know what kind of family that bitch came from but my family and I stick together…We may have our own arguments but when it gets down to it…We are there for each other!...But since her nigga is a small time drug dealer( only sells weed…probably grossing a messily $300 a week[better off with a job]) she thinks she is hard…but like I have told her and man y other people…A nigga doesn’t make you hard!!!>>>You Just His Bitch! I’m not the hardest person in the world and I won’t flex about bullshyt like that either…My reputation is all ME!...People know how far to go with me cause of what I represent not some nigga…So my message to all my wonderful readers is to keep your eyes open for trifling tramps… L lol

Peace,
Outspoken Goddess

:-( :-(

2009-06-26T13:11:00.000-04:00

I would like to sayy RIP Michael Jackson...He was truly the best...He was definitely my favorite Pop artist...I cried and cried...I prayy for hys family...especially hys children... :-(
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♫☮☻Throwback Tale Thursdayyy♫☮☻

2009-06-25T13:53:00.000-04:00

Hello all my readers...Sorry that I haven't posted in a while...I have been getting stuff together for fall semester...As you know last week I sent out a request for throwback tales...I received a few and I have selected one...Continue to send stories questions and things you want posted to outspokengoddess@gmail.com

Hello Outspoken!!! I love your blog. You keep everything so real :-). Anyways, my story took place when I was 18(I'm 22 now)
Okay so I met James when I was 18 at a local club. He was extremely attractive! Around 6'2 160. Anyways he and I got to talking and before you knew it he and were grinding in the club...He took me back to his place and it was on. Dude sucked my nipples like a champ(they were sore the next day tho)&&ate my pussy even better!...And the sex was even better...His stroke game was on point!..That was my first one night stand I never heard from James again...I don't even believe James was his real name. But anyways 2 months later I had no period. I was pregnant! Here I was 18 years old in college and pregnant...I gave birth to a baby boy&& I regret that night everyday of my life. I thank god for my son though(he is my strength)...But its soooo hard telling my son that I don't know who his dad is. So here is some advice for the girlies!!!!! Make sure the nigga straps up&& be careful with your life. You only have one! Don't make life altering decisions without thinking them through!!!!
Peace
Jade

☮♥Random Ish☮♥

2009-06-12T12:47:00.000-04:00

☮♥ Heyyy Readers....remember to send in your questions and stories to outspokengoddess@gmail.com :-)☮♥

So anyways these last couple of dayys have been very hectic for me....1. I have a new guyy in my life that i mentioned in a previous post(nothing serious yet{fingers crossed})...2. My Ex is trying to wiggle hys wayy back into my life[not going to happen]...3. My other is trying to sabotage my new potential romance{punk ass}...4.&& Dumb Bitches annoying the shyt out of me thinking they are hard!!!! Ughhh lol...

1. The New Guy In my Life ♥...Okayy so one of besties put me in contact with a guyy...who I kinda knew through my ex boyfriend lol{hys ex-best friend}...He and I start texting each other and the chemistry was immediately there...I am a sucker for guyy with a great sense of humor :-)...and it doesn't hurt that he is easy on the eyes...dark skin guyys with Mohawks my weakness...yummmm lol :-)...So anyways he and I eventually talked on the phone...I have fallen in love with hys voice...It's something about guyys with Florida accents and the not too deep but not too high voice...we have only been talking for 2 weeks and half but I know there is so much potential for a deep relationship there..but unfortunately both of us are heading off to college he is staying here in GA and I am venturing of to AL...but if he is willing to give it a go...hell I am down...some niggas are too fine to pass up :-)
2. My ex-boyfriend...i mentioned hym in a previous post where I discussesd my cheating on hym...well...anyways he and I are done...After hearing about hys lies and cheating...&& also that he might be a bisexual which I can totally believe...{he loved hym some prada and gucci..hmmm}...So anyways I received a text from hym...basically he expressed that he couldn't imagine hyslife without me..So I'm thinking..."BULLSHIT" lol...But you know it kills me...It seems like everytime you find a new guyy...an ex-boyfriend always finds hys wayy back into your life...I WONDER WHY????? Hmmmm.
3.So my bitch as fucking ex!!!!!.....As I mentioned in the first post...My current suitor and ex were best friends...so i told my ex about me and the new guyy...he acted as though he was cool about it...BUT HE WASN'T...So how about he had the nerve to tell the new guyy not to kiss me and alwayys strap up....I was totally thinking...you we're literally at my house hours before trying to get some...So....Ughhh I'm done with that ish...
4.) Bitch Ass Females...So I have these friend from a sheltered environment and she recently got involved with this thug{punk as thug}!!...&& now she just thinks she's some kind of bad ass....So i'm totally like at the point where I want to kick her ass....Now i'm not the hardest chick on the planet but i come from a family where i was taught how to fight and how to handle myself&&i just hate when a bitch has to go around and flex prtending to be hard..cause that's when I feel like I have to step in and show you what hard is...but anywayys I just had to get that off of my chest

Peace..Love U All...TGIF
Outspoken Goddess

☮♥ Questions for Readers☮♥ && shyt that has been on mind!!!! :-)

2009-06-10T11:45:00.000-04:00

outspokengoddess@gmail.com (remember to send in questions and comments)
Heyy guyyys....Sorry about the last couple of post...I had been updating from my phone...ughh lol...Anyways I have a couple questions for you guyys&&gurls...and a couple of stories to share :-)...some of my own and some from friends and followers...;-)....

Okayy here is a personal story of mine...I had become sexually involved with someone older( 4 yrs older)...which is a hell of a difference for an 18 yr old lol...Anyways he and I had sex a couple of times...the sex wasn't the usual "fuck" type of sex...It was the complete thing...kissing...sucking...eating...fucking...&&even the "cuddling and talking" after the sex....I developed feeling for him...but i recently cut-off all involvements with hym since he does have a girlfriend...and I am trying to get serious with this new guyy in my life*Yay, I have a new potential boyfriend lol*...i have been contemplating rather I should get back into that situation or not...The sex was truly amazing and the chemistry was there....But I'm scared that i will fall for hym...and as we all know he is not going to leave his girlfriend for no fuck...not even for the girl that was special enough for him to go down on and kiss passionately on the lips....Ughhh HELP PLEASE!!!...&& Please don't bash me for fucking some one's man...

Story 2
Okayy one of my good friend wanted me to post this story&& question.....

I was talking to my friend last night and she and I got on the subject of dope boys...She has a rule she only fucks dope boys&&"gangsters" (most of them are flexers in my opinion)...But anyways she told me that dope boys and gangsters make better fucks because they have more anger suppressed and are ready to release it...I laughed at her theory matter as fact I am still laughing....I have never really been attracted to the dope boy or gangster guyys(I have had a couple)...the ones I dated I never fucked...Hell I didn't have time to wait for you to get out the streets or time to worry bout you while you were grinding...So I want to hear your stories....and experiences with gangsters/dopeboys lol

Story 3
Hey Outspoken Goddess. I am 17 years old I have been with 12 guyys and I read your previous post about guyys considering you a whore after you have been with 15. I am not a whore I just love sex!!! What is your opinion on me?

Okayy, remember my opinion is just that MY OPINION....I would sayy I don't consider you a whore but you are on the verge of being "ripped out"...Slow Down!!!! ASAP...Sex is good!!!....But it's too many diseases out here for you to be fucking so many people...I myself have been with onli a couple of guyys and I had to catch myself&&tell myself to slow down...no one wants to marry someone with no walls....Take a break from sex...And pick people worthy of you...I would love if you chose one or two guyys that you could fuck on a constant basis that wayy you won't be too out there....but gurly just be safe...CONDOMS....CONDOMS....CONDOMS!!!!!!!

Questions for the Readers.....

1.) How many inches is the perfect dick???(length&&width)
2.)Do you want a chick cleanly shaven????
3.)What cup size is the perfect size for a woman???
4.) Breast or Ass???
5.) Thick Dick or Long Dick????
6.) Money or Sexiness????
7.)&& A Thick Chick or Skinny Chick....or Built or Skinny Man????

<3 ANAL SEX <3 :-0

2009-06-05T10:42:00.000-04:00

Okayyy, last nite I was chilling with a few girl friends of mine...We got on the topic of sex&& i brought up a guyy asking if he could stick his finger in my ass while he's fuckn me from the back lol...If it isn't obvious yet...I ddnt let hym do it..I was kinda repulsed&&scared lol...I jus neva understood what kind of sensation u could get out of bein ass fucked&& after reading the Jim Jones story on Tales From A Groupie(one of my favs)...I was even more creeped out...Im all for tryn new shyt...but not if it causes pain...ughhh lol...My friends have told me tht it doesn't hurt&&it doesn't feel like anything...So what is the point???...If a guyy wants to have anal sex is he gayy???...&& When you've been fucked in the ass...Can you get up and face someone with same pide???...Let me know what you think or have experienced....I need advice/answers before I venture into this lol....outspokengoddess@gmail.com :-)...............<3.......<3.......<3................ Peace...Outspoken Goddess

☮♥Tips for the Ladies!!!!!!!! ☮♥

2009-06-03T14:30:00.000-04:00

Okayy ladies,ladies,ladies....My close guyy friends have been giving us heat...I was talking to my best friend yesterday and he was telling me how we have been slipping!!!...I was totally thrown...I haven't been slipping...Have You???....Cuz one woman's actions affect us all lol....Here is the list that my friend made...along with my comments of course
* Make sure your pussy is clean!!!!!...Okay ladies you know this is a must...as women we have t watch this...we get to jumping around and stuff and the coochie gets sweaty and a little funky...so we have to freshen up regularly...Cuz the fishy odor will creep up
*Make sure your undergarments match or at least the same color....Okayy i don't always wear matching sets but I am gonna be color coordinated...make sure you are matching...niggas look....&&theyy will get turned off of they see holes,string...and god forbid shit stains!!
*Make sure you aren't sweaty..When I'm licking your body I don't want to taste salt....Ladies keep it fresh!!!
*Let us know before we pull your hair that it is weave...LMAO ladies don't forget to tell him...cuz you will be riding home with half of ya shit missing...but if you are like me and don't like people's hands in your head...You don't have to worry lol
* Last but not least...Make sure you breath is on point.........Ladies keep some gum and breath mint...I always carry some gum..hell its only a quarter&&if that doesn't work see the doctor lol

Peace
Outspoken Goddess :)

♫☻Sexual Myths and Stories☻♫

2009-06-01T14:36:00.000-04:00

*remember to send in questions and stories to outspokengoddess@gmail.com♥

Okayy over the weekend I did a lot of research...I hung out with a couple of my male friends and theyy let me in their world for a couple dayys... here are a few things that theyy let me know...
*A guyy considers a girl ripped out if she has had more tham 15 partners(keep it under 15 ladies)
* Theyy conduct ear-wax test....to elaborate....they dig in their ears and if you jump back you have an open wound in your...perhaps an STD.
*Theyy do an armpit test...If ur pits stank 9 times out of ten your pussy stinks lol

♥♥☮Tips for Having a Healthy Sexual Relationship♥♥☮

2009-05-28T12:15:00.001-04:00

Okayyy i know you're probably thinking how can a 18 year old give tips on sex and sexual relationships...but to answer that question...I'm not a whore or anything...I do read a lot of books and I do experiment lol...but after all it is just advice!!!...So you take from it what you wantt

Let me start of by saying that I'm not what you would call a relationship person...I do have a boyfriend but he knows I have slipped up and cheated on him...&& i do feel bad that I did cheat...but it's so hard being serious at 18...cuz there is so much for you to explore and see...Every dick is not the same...&& its nice to try them out lol...but let me sayy this PROTECT YOURSELVES!!! Safety is very important I'm the girl that carries her own condoms and puts them on...just as girls jimmy condoms...guyys do that as well!!!&& Let me sayy abstinence is cool...but it isn't for everyone...I'm not a religious person therefore I don't believe you're going to burn in hell for all eternity! But heyy to each is own :) With that said, let's get into it!!!!

Okayyyy....
Tip 1: Make sure your partner understands what you like and what you don't like.
Tip 2: Make sure he or she is game for anything before doing it...It can really ruin a situation!
Tip 3: Be upfront...Honesty is the best policy!!! Lying can put you in sticky situations.
Tip 4: Don't be scared to perform oral sex...This is for male and females!!!(Guyys especially) FYI guyys women are more likely to come from you eating her out than you banging her back out and if you are into pleasing go for it&&for you stingy son of bitches that get yours and only aim to please yourself...Think about how you would feel if a girl got hers and left your dick hard and your balls blue!!!&& Ladies there are guys out there who enjoyy getting there dick sucked more so than banging pussy...Get your head game together or find someone that isn't into oral.
Tip 5: All the dirtyy talk is not necessary most girls find it creepy and a huge turn off...if you're not dealing with a toal nympho...I suggest you don't do it!
Tip 6: Women just don't lie there! Move around...Make sounds!!!..If ypu don't he might as well be fucking a corpse,right?
Tip 7: Experiment...There are other positions out there...besides missionary, doggy-style, and cowgirl/reverse cowgirl!!!!!
Tip 8: Be open minded when it comes to penis size! I know you mite like when he stokes it deep inside and you feel it in your stomach...but ladies our g-spot isn't that far back! If a dude has a decent dick and stroke game he can get you to ecstasty just as well as the brother that's packing steel!

...Feel free to comment or write to me @ ouspokengoddess@gmail.com
Peace and Blessings Muah♥♥☮,
Outpoken Goddess

♥Questions From Readers♥

2009-05-27T11:06:00.000-04:00

Hello Everyone....
Okay....I received a couple of questions over the Memorial Day break...Here theyy are...☻

Q: Yesterday I was with my boyfriend and we had sex. He told me there was something weird about my "insides". Truth is I cheated on him and I was wondering, if a guy can tell if you have cheated on him?
A: I would say yes. As we know the vagina(hate that word) becomes loose the more you fuck. So depending on when you cheated there is a strong possibility that he knew....But i will say this as a cheater...Do not rat yourself out playy it cool...&& ask what he meant by weird lol

Q: My boyfriend of a week and I had sex for the first time a couple days ago. Neither one of us were virgins. He came rather quickly( tho he said it had only been two weeks since he fucked). What can I do to prevent him from cumming so quickly?
A: Well idk if you are into fellatio or not....but i suggest you give him oral(protected of course) and just when he is about to nut stop. You can usually tell when he about to nut because hys body will usually shake and hys ass will tighten lol...
Q: I am 17 and so ready to lose my virginty but I am scared that my boyfriend will not respect me and no one will want to fuck me.
A: Okayy well I was 17 years old when I lost my virginity to my then boyfriend we had been together off and on for a year. I knew I was ready when I did it. If you are ready I would say yes...BE SAFE! And guys don't lose respect for girls after a couple times of fucking(IMO) and if he does break-up with you....that was something you had to do to grow...&& gurlie guys don't care if you are not a virgin this is not 1866 lol....As long as you not "ran thru" someone will always be there.

COUNTINUE WRITING

2009-05-26T07:49:00.000-04:00

...please continue to send questions&&topic suggestions.... to outspokengoddess@gmail.com

Letter from 21 yr old Woman

2009-05-25T16:22:00.000-04:00

Well....I recieved an email yesterdayy from a 21 yr old woman...(sorry i couldn't post it)...but to sum it up...she has been seeing someone for two months...she's become sexually involved with him and the sex i good...but she doesn't know where she stands with the guyy...when she confronts hym ask where theyy stand he tlks in circles..she wants to know should she stayy or go?............................................................................. Okay....I would say stay in a little bit longer!...Sometimes guyys dnt want to complicate things with titles hun....If you are getting great sex out of it kudos...cuz some girls are waiting for guys that cant even lay the pipe lol...But seriously i definitely feel you should give it a couple weeks and see where things are...*remember you can still browse the books since you aren't exclusive yet.* But don't wait to long for this one guyyMr.Right could be right in front of you;) Muah Much Love....Ouspoken Goddess <3

☺In Search of a Cougar☺

2009-05-22T11:35:00.000-04:00

This letter was written by a 23 yr old guyyy...
Whats up,
I am 23 years old...and I live in Atlanta. I have been seeing this woman everyday for a good minute. ( She is 43)When I say see I mean I ride by her house on route to my grandfather's house. Anyways I finally built up enough courage to ask her out. She is very intelligent and insightful. I really like her but she keeps bringing up the age difference and refuses to give me the time of day. She wouldn't even give me her number. What should I do?

...Okayy well first off you should approach her differently...ask her about herself and speak to her on different level...After all she is two decades older than you hun...Make her feel comfortable talking to you...Don't ask her out again...Play it cool...Once you guyys have developed a friendship she will be more attracted to you....If she is truly what you want...You will take time and learn her.

☮,
Outspoken Goddess

...New Stories...

2009-05-22T10:00:00.000-04:00

Hello!!!!....I am reali encouraging people to send in stories and questions so I can get this blog on the roll....outspokengoddess@gmail.com....

Thanks,
Outspoken Goddess

Welcome To MissInformative!!!

2009-05-21T12:48:00.000-04:00

Hello, I am Outspoken Goddess...and I created this blog to entertain and inform young adults...This blog will contain my personal experiences...my close friends experiences....&& also those from my future readers...If you will like to share a story with me...send your stories and questions to outspokengoddess@gmail.com ...I will respond to every question that I can answer...Keep in mind what the blog focuses on(sex, self image, and personal beliefs)...I realli hope you follow this blog and enjoyy!♥♥♥....
☮☮☮,
OutspokenGoddess ☺